Being a mother of four, I know how doing anything with children can be a big adventure. Whether it is grocery shopping, football games, or visiting with friends. When it comes time to shop for a house it isn’t any different. Hiring a sitter or leaving the kids with grandma may be the first thought, but if that is not an option or your children really want to come along here are some things you can do to make the experience a good one for everyone.
The best way to start out any adventure is with preparation. During the process of house shopping it is very important for everyone to be prepared and to know what to expect. As a parent they are many things you can do to make the process go smoothly. Start by talking with your agent and let him or her know that your children will be coming along with you. If you have several children or little ones still in car seats it may be easier to take your own vehicle. Next talk with your children let them know what to expect and set some ground rules such as no touching when visiting homes, using your quiet voice, and saving questions for the ride to the next house. Depending on the age of your children, set realistic expectations. Here are some dos and don’ts,
· Don’t visit too many houses at one time; set the maximum at five or six.
· Don’t set an appointment to look at houses when your children are tired or hungry.
· Do involve you children in the process, ask them which house they like, which room they would want, and what they like or disliked about each house.
· Do make a goody bag with a few favorite toys, small notebook for writing questions or keeping a checklist, some stickers and a bottle of water.
· Do have something fun planned for afterwards, a trip to the park, or ice cream shop, or just a fun activity for when you get home.
· And finally don’t hesitate to reschedule if someone is not feeling well or if after a few houses everyone is already tired and cranky.
With a little planning, finding a house can be an experience that the whole family will enjoy and remember for years to come.
Leah Jacobsen, your family friendly Realtor
REMAX Bravo
www.findingyouahome.com
Licensed Salesperson in the Commonwealth of Virginia
